A City Teeming With Many Lives...and Many Stories...

A City Teeming With Many Lives...and Many Stories...
A City Teeming With Many Lives...and Many Stories...

Monday, December 3, 2012

Coming Soon..."The Lesson"

I know folks are scrolling around, awaiting my new fictional story "The Lesson" as well as my latest entry in ESpeakeasy.  Believe me, I am working on it. 

However, I'd like to direct your attention to my new blog: WhereDidOurLoveGo.blogspot.com in which I can primarily focus on issues and stories that deal with life and love.  There's also a couple new entries in BidKidsGadgets.blogspot.com that might prove helpful to you or a friend.

I promised a friend down in Florida, that I would write my story on an outdoor Winter Wilderness experience I had in high school.  However, my next two dramatic, fictional stories for this blog and on ESpeakeasy must come first.  They do take time to write and edit (and re-edit even after I publish).  Then I will be freed up for some humor from my past.  So sit back and relax.  Just keep on checking up.  Some more good stuff is on the way!

Just in time for the holidays...

Sunday, November 25, 2012

ESpeakeasy.blogspot.com Is Now The Rawest Work I've Ever Done

I have to break one promise, and that was that I was going to publish "The Lesson" in my next post.  I will make this up, I promise.  I just needed to take a moment to say that I believe that my  www.ESpeakeasy.blogspot.com is now the most rawest collection of life stories mixed with fictional characters that I've ever written.  It surpasses everything I ever written, whether that was in college, or shopped to a screenwriting or literary agent.

"The '80's...No Church In The Wild" entry is the hardest glimpse into what I experienced (and now revisit) from the 1980's.  Including the showdown gun fight scene at "The Funhouse".  Yep, that really happened to me and several friends from the 7th grade who had chosen a different path in life.  I hope many of you who follow me here will be sure to start reading and following ESpeakeasy.  I am so enthusiastic behind it's story and it's historical significance, I will be retooling it as a full blown manuscript in the very near future.

The bottom line is...so many things that combine us as a nation cross culturally, you can see many of those foundations being established in the 1980's.  So many of the positives that evolved in the '80's...flowed on a continum to present day America.  It all started to take shape right in the heart of New York City as the city (and many big cities across the nation) rebounded from one of its darkest moments in it's history...the 1970's.

Feel free to email me with your comments, recollections and feedback!

NYEastsideEntertainment@gmail.com
 

Sunday, November 18, 2012

The Call For Artistic Assistance...Answered!

Sometimes we start a project, thinking it will require just a modicum of our effort...and sometimes we start a project that upon being in the middle of the endeavor, we find out that it is really involved and will require greater concentration and/or time and effort than we could have imagined.  At the end of the day, we have to ask ourselves was it worth it?  Did we accomplish what we started out to do?

I remember writing early on this blog, that when we are deeply involved in something artistical, we don't achieve it, more than we begin to discover it, as it envelopes us.  We actually become it.

Those who've known me for a long time, always know that I've been involved in writing.  I switched majors twice in college in the '80's, shopped a screenplay in '97 and a couple of manuscripts sometime after that, all to no avail.  Although I always spurred some interest, I never could close a deal.  Through it all I continued to live life, kept my day job and raise a family...and still dreamed.  I tried and failed two years ago to set up a serial story web site due to software issues and training.  Then after a year of being prodded by friends to do "something" looked into blogging.  I started this blog in July and now...four months later...I have four blogs.  Soon I will be back to working on that darn web site.  Believe me...those stories are really good!

Each one of my current four blogs requires a different approach.  My resources are limited and as I've twice mentioned in previous posts, I do not wish to fall into any situation where I can be sued for royalties for using pictures from others on this blog.  I use Internet pictures pretty regularly to tell a joke on Facebook, but here on this blog, I am not afforded the same legal latitude.  Nor can I afford being left open to any after the fact royalty lawsuit.

Then came the Google challenges and changes.  I know I have you friends, fans, followers out there keeping a steady tab on me.  Believe me, I'm well past just being appreciative.  I am humbled and thankful that I can write something to excite, interest, help or simply share something that affects you positively in some kind of way.  I've made friends overseas and cross country.  Ironically, as much as I write my Google blogging experience in these things, with all the Google changes, about a month ago I've considered moving my writings over to another blog domain.  I didn't want Google's changes affecting my writings or my growth.  I do not want to merge this blog with Google Plus.  Not everyone wants to visit this blog in that way.  However, after some careful financially based decisions, I decided to stick with my guns...through Google.  I'm leaving the access (format) as is, and branching out with my additional blogs through this present format.

It doesn't stop there.  Some Google deadlines are coming up with regard to advertisements.  Another pressure.  It's like getting kicked to the curb.  I want to keep what I write from falling into a black hole of being just limited to a small, intimate audience of friends.  I'd like to continue to grow?  With limited resources, no Madison Avenue marketing campaign, no professional models, costume department or photographers, blog launched already committed, and deadlines around the corner...I privately contacted friends for some help.  ARTISTIC HELP!

Through whatever misunderstandings, or misperceptions, or miscommunications...I lost two friends in this process...but also received an out pour of help and encouragement from others.  Whether it was the four hours spent with a friend from Ohio (on a Friday night) helping me use computer software to compose elements in a picture (via back and fourth emails and Facebook chat) till we got the final product right, or friends in England snapping on the fly pictures for use, or a close by friend sending me four pictures that were near studio quality, taken with her cell phone - they all understood what I needed and responded with positive thoughts, suggestions and corrections.  Lastly, I cannot forget the two other friends who have kept texting me, critiqued my changes and let me know that they supported my pursuit to get better and understood exactly what I needed.  To ALL of you this week...you've healed a shaken heart...and kept me on target.  You saved my concept and purpose of ESpeakeasy.  THANK YOU!

Now other readers will benefit from the positive that came out of this negative moment.

Now that the bar has been raised for ESpeakeasy, you can click any of the tabs here to get to it.  Know that the new pictures added cost me a combined time of 16 hours to produce.  Yep, at a cost of 16 hours and 2 friends.  But, no royalty issues whatsoever and a visually improved product that's on target to what it's essence is:  Young people coming of age in a decade wrought with magnificent social changes locally, nationally and globally.   I think from here forward ESpeakeasy will not fall into abyss of the Blog Universe or be forced to morph into a different format.  I think from here on, it will stand out on it's own and bring enjoyment to many people outside of my beautiful circle of friends.  Whatever mishaps and missteps occurred to this point, I bear the brunt of the responsibility.  My apologies to all.

My next story entry here will be the story entitled, "The Lesson".  I have learned mine.

Friday, November 16, 2012

Live and Learn...Another Lesson...

Yes, it has happened.  If you've been reading my blogs, you will notice the changes.  More will be coming.  You can now hit the right tabs on this blog to connect to all the other blogs.  Also that goes the same for the other blogs.  Each one has a link for all the others.  In addition, there will be more pictures or visuals.  Each blog is a separate entity and audience.  I'll take any volunteers from whomever would like to either help edit or supply some form of help <laughing out loud>.  This has become quite a challenge.  I hope I haven't lost a friend or two.  I am beyond thankful to those who have bravely stepped in to help me, "my sisters" in recent days, and from the very beginning.  Without your feedback, whether it was encouragement or chastising or a creative revelation - I would be stuck in the mud.  Thank you, thank you, and thank you a thousand times more!

Anyway, I was watching the history channel last night and they were airing back to back episodes of their series "The Men Who Built America".  After watching about 6 episodes throughout the night, it was pretty clear to me that history in this country has clearly repeated itself.  Everything that we are experiencing has been experienced almost in exactitude more than 100 years ago.  It's worth watching and educating ourselves to this repeat.  Especially the episode that deals with the presidential election of 1896.  If you really want to blow away the socks of a loud mouth spewing hate or nonsense out of their mouths today...put this link below in their mouths and tell them not to choke on it and move on.

http://www.thehistorychannelclub.com/articles/articletype/articleview/articleid/1631/the-men-who-built-america


As one modern wealthy guy said in the video, "The names of players and the tools in the game may have changed, but the game itself hasn't change.  The game is still the game even today." 

It's time now we just pull together and get to work and do our jobs!

Prior to all the above events, I promised the roll out of a story that I was pretty keen on producing here in this blog.  I'm going to put that on the back burner and push forward a short story that I feel is more relevant to today's times and the evolution of our world.

That story is entitled "The Lesson".  I hope everyone will be looking forward to it.  I know I am looking forward to writing it on here to be read.  Have a great, great weekend everyone!


Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Time To Get It Together...Evolution...

Okay...the bad news first.  I have now been able to move around a little bit and speak to neighbors and coworkers about their own personal ordeal, or family members and neighbors ordeals with this disaster.  The more I see, the more sad and stinging reality of the destruction.  After also watching Youtube videos, I now know what the world was viewing during the 10 days that when I was without power.  I can assure you that for all of us here, we universally feel like we're missing a week's worth of days.  It's hard to believe that we're in the middle of the month of November.  The end of October feels like it never really happened.  Amazing.

The United States also had it's elections during this disaster.  President Obama has retained his presidency.  Most of the Congress and Senate positions and balance numbers has remained the same.  There is a threat of more governmental impasse as the two major political parties are squaring off to hold their positions.  And now as of today's date, some 40 states have filings to secede.  So instead of working together as a nation, it is better to drift a part?  That is the negative thinking of folks whose egos have exceeded their common sense.  It's the same thinking that comes to mind when you have drunk family members fighting at a family gathering.  Instead of cooling off and sobering up, everyone wants to start outing their dirty laundry on one other.  "The ego goeth before the fall" folks.

The United States and this world is one family.  This disaster has taught my block just that.  For the most part, the immediate neighbors kept pulling together...everyday.  Even coworkers via text messages, Twitter or Facebook or phone calls.  Everyone kept helping one another know where gas was, where a tree might be down or a dangerous condition was ahead.

One friend even posted this news link on his blog to discuss the matter:

http://www.mfsasr.com/1/post/2012/11/if-you-really-want-to-leave.html

We all need to drop our egos and fanning the words of hate and anger and simply work together.  Not just because of hurricane disaster or results from a recent political election.  We need to pull together simply because we need to survive.  The United States and this world needs to EVOLVE.  As a neighborhood, as a city, a county, a state, a nation and a planet.  That's pretty much the end of it.  Thinking any other way is thinking within your own self and not for the overall good of your world around you.  Should I have carried a bat or gun to get gas in a line of 50 people last week?  What signals would I have sent to the other people in line or the police who were standing nearby?

We were in crisis and it was time to get it together, not rip it apart.  I've never "loved" a politician at any time of my life.  Why start now?  I think I might have been more infatuated with past Playboy Bunnies rather than be so worked up about a politician.  I'm 47, and I've seen quite a few of them come and go.  Some for better.  Some for worse.  But at the end of the day, our city, our state, our nation must go on.

Now onto the happier news.  It appears that I'm being challenged by Google to make changes, as they make constant changes in their universe.  Thus between their fluctuation and my own goals, I'm being challenged to expand my writings to a broader audience and not just pockets of friends from life, work, Facebook, social chat sites.   I hope everyone will remember that my overall goal isn't to cheapen or trivialize anything in our human experience.  My overall goal is to try to share knowledge about life experiences and to foster positive dialog between people where possible.  I try to do that in an entertaining fashion so that people feel more at ease in expressing themselves.

ESpeakeasy is not going to be set up to objectify women (or men) or trivialize the club scene or people who make bad decisions, and live life on the outer boundaries.  The goal of ESpeakeasy is sort of an intellectual gossip about pleasure seeking and the lessons learned there of.  TheDarksideStories is not a trivial play of those of us who believe in ghostly spirits, black magic or werewolves and vampires.   Nor is it an attack on or disrespect of monotheistic religion.  Lastly, BigKidsGadgets is not the know all, end all to the technology industry.  I hold no degrees in computer science.  I discovered what I know and talk about...one mistake at a time.  I also read up on things.  Many of the things I continue to read up on would put most of my friends to sleep.  That's why so many of them have come to me over the past several years for help.  I just explain it as I learn it and keep it as simple as possible.  If you know anyone who could use the information that I cover on a product, just direct them to the blog and hopefully I can help.  Believe me, many of the tech blogs will blow some people away. But I will re-direct anyone there too if they want a more technical explanation, review or instruction.

Lastly to all of my friends whom I might ask for assistance in some way, no matter how CRAZY (chuckle, chuckle) please give me a one month pass.  I now have a full plate.  I can't wear a clown suit to attract folks to ESpeakeasy.  Trying to explain computer or mobile device stuff one day and tell a funny life story on this blog - just won't work either.  So please bear with me.  No demerits necessary.  I have to jump into different suits to communicate to different audience expectations.  But all that I do is about life lessons.  Hopefully there will be positive results at the end of the day.

Evolution has served mankind pretty well for the past 10,000 years.  I've only been at this for five months.  Have a great day/evening.  Peace and love to all.

Monday, November 12, 2012

The Launch of Two New Blogs!

Good day everyone!

It's nice to be back in action.  Even though things are long from being restored overall on Long Island, I am happy that I was able to capture the experience with a few posts.  I actually have a story that explains a life lesson I learned way back during my prep school "Winter Wilderness" experience, which provided some of the learned experiences which assisted me and my family 31 years later in being able to get through that difficult time.

Today I would like to announce the launch of two additional blogs to go along with the two blogs that I've already published.  That brings my total list to four blogs.  Crazy?  Yes!  Worth it?  Yes!

I've met and made so many different friends from this blog, that I began to realize there were other things that occur in my daily life that I wanted to share with them.  I'm a gadget guy and for the past five years, as our mobile technology has kicked into high gear and as I ran into computer problems with my home computers - I decided to educate myself and get into building, fixing my own stuff.  My journey into the tech world has enabled me to assist numerous coworkers, neighbors and relatives in finding the proper electronic device to help them with their lives.  At the insistence of some of those coworkers and relatives, I have now launched the following blog.

www.BigKidsGadgets.blogspot.com

After reading various other tech blogs, they invariably become too technical for people I know over 30 years of age, and very little interests in learning about anything technical.  Everyone wants "plug and play" or in this case "turn on and work".  Hopefully I will be able to simply those issues with people as our technological world continues to explode.  Everyone always needs someone who will go read the instructions and then explain how to use the device in as simple a manner as possible.  That guy...will be me.  Check out the blog...and see how it grows.


The other blog I'm launching has to do with stories from people experiences good and evil spirits, live or dead.  You'll decide.

www.TheDarksideStories.blogspot.com


And of course for those who have been following my other blog already:  www.ESpeakeasy.blogspot.com is back.  Expect a new entry on this dalliance into this part real, part fictional world of hedonistic stories that a young group of people encounter on their way of growing into adulthood.

What does the "E" in Speakeasy stand for?  Enjoy the journey of finding out.

Friday, November 9, 2012

The Night The Light Came Back...

Yes, that is a picture of street lights down my block.  This the same picture and view angle I posted of a pitch black street just several days ago.

I've lived through and survived the 1977 New York Blackout, as well as the 2003 Eastern Seaboard Blackout.  I've even had several smaller blackouts, including a 4 day blackout a few years ago living on Long Island.  But I have to say that I don't think I've ever enjoyed seeing light or power restoration as much as I did about four hours ago here on my block.  The immediate phone calls, text messages and doorbell rings up and down the block...people cheering.  It was surreal.

Our power came back about 15 to 30 minutes after the Nassau County Excutive Edward Mangano had made an unusual and extraordinary request for the U.S military and Department of Energy to take over the managerial structure of the Long Island Power Authority, aka LIPA in the restoration of power on Long Island.  This comes a week after New York Governor, Andrew Cuomo publicly called out LIPA for having a "history" of failing to get Long Island's power restored in a timely fashion as well as communicating proper updates to it's customers.  He threatened that he would have their management replaced if they didn't get the restoration process done in a timely fashion.  Now with Mangano's request, the Governor's threat has been completed.  Clearly LIPA has failed yet once again.  They are no better than their notorious predecessor, LILCO (Long Island Lighting Company) which it completely replaced in 1998.

I guess now the official "heads are going to roll" time has started.  Sooner or later it will be all persons in the civilian Emergency Management systems for New Jersey, New York City as well as Long Island.  There are still thousands without homes or power or both.  I know of a person taking in one or two sets of relatives  who lived near the shoreline, for refuge, but only to find himself with his power knocked out during the storm and living on a generator for about 5 to 6 days.  Three families in one house and on one generator?

There is no magic pill to take, nor can the solution for this disaster be resolved within the confines of some future 60 minute investigative news report.  The realities of what has taken place here are going to have to be realized and dealt with for some time to come.  These realities will need to be digested by both public officials, residential developers, civic designers...and MOST IMPORTANTLY the public themselves.

First, off the top of my head is that clearly we in the northeast of the United States are way too over dependent on gasoline.  Since I became a suburbanite, I too have now slipped into the same lazy habits.  Being forced to use my vehicle for essentially the barest of needs, I began to realize how many more times I could have walked or biked to certain locations for small or trivial items.  Growing up in New York City, you learn to take a bus or walk or ride a bike to get to certain places.  Once I made the transition moving to the Queens and then Long Island suburbs, I threw those healthier activities away.  You get more into the habit of driving everywhere because places you go are far away.  Unfortunately, you then begin driving to even some of the more easily accessible places and start to disdain even short walks.  Not anymore.

Second, in the instance of hurricanes, tropical storms, ocean surges, or tidal waves, you really to need to make sure that you have a supply of batteries for a simple radio, flashlight and food to get yourself by for at least a week.  In the case of such disasters - especially if it is an ocean event - whatever waters that came up and over the shore, has probably destroyed or severely damaged ports as well.  Waiting for military or governmental airlifts to drop you off food, water, batteries or even fuel is a dream floating around in your head, probably stemming from television show or movie.  Clearly from the events down in New Orleans and now the New York and New Jersey area, namely Hurricane Katrina in 2005 and now Hurricane Sandy in 2012 respectively speaking - I'm not going out on a limb in making that statement.  Sandy never even reached 115 mph winds like Hurricane Irene did 13 months ago, and look at what has happened.  It's 10 days after the event and there are thousands still not getting the help that they need.

Third, but just as important as the first two, is that there are too many homes (and hotels) built dangerously near or simply too close to the ocean.  Buying an expensive house at any such location is probably a bigger risk than ever before.  When you buy a house in any coastal town or city, "ocean views" are usually a huge selling point and subsequently inflates the price of that house.  Well if you believe statistics as showing "trends" - 17 of the top 24 (or 70%) of the costliest Atlantic ocean born hurricanes have struck the gulf coast and east coast since 1980. This trend will probably continue as more people and municipalities allow for additional homes to be built in such locations.  This is not my opinion.  Just read the link below.


That's not even throwing in the dozens of Nor'Easters which have also caused very costly damage and killed hundreds, if not thousands in that same time frame (since 1980).  Just remember the movie "The Perfect Storm" was based on one of those dozens of Nor'Easters.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1991_Perfect_Storm

Even the "simple" tropical storms in the northeast can cause massive flooding.  Ironically, I remember there being a small real estate boom to build more houses out in the Hamptons with "ocean front" or "near ocean" views. I had a relative who had a house by the bay, and in a three year period in the middle 1980's watched the already bottleneck traffic get even more congested with the newer traffic for the newer houses that were popping up like weeds.

I had a former coworker who also purchased a house about 3 miles away, on a lower end near an inlet.  He owned that house roughly from 1986 to at least 2009.  He had his own dock, boat and could sail right out into the ocean and go fishing.  That house flooded on almost a regular basis during that 13 year period that he owned that house, whenever we had major storms.  Having proper air conditioning (high humidity) within the house during the warm months, as well as painting maintenance on the house itself, and it's outdoor furniture (due to the salt water air) had to be costly to him year to year?  I know it was for my now decease relative, and he lived on a bluff that faced the bay - which was not even prone to floods.

"Cheap" homes on Fire Island start at nearly a million dollars for a small, next to nothing, two bedroom house.  What would you pay for that house now?  Fire Island is basically a barrier island that protects the some of the south shore of Long Island from the ocean surges.  Well...Fire Island got destroyed by Sandy as well.  So much for a barrier.

I love an ocean view just as much as the next person.  But, not at the risk to losing all of my most valuable possessions. Real estate and civic developers are going to have to re-think the wisdom in overbuilding by the water.  The increased tax revenue and the income from the sale of the homes by the water will never balance out the yearly upkeep costs and eventual "big storm" disaster relief that will probably follow that house in the long run.

Just food for thought.

Many "thank yous" to everyone who has been following my writings through this disaster and wished me well via emails, text or Twitter messages - or even silent support by virtue of following my writing entries and checking up on me.  I thank you all so very, very much.  You folks are what keeps me working very, very hard to produce as best I can.

May God bless all of you.  Good night.